I Help Smart, Creative, and Innovative People -- Especially Seniors & Retirees --
Achieve Desired Objectives.
Do you want something different than what you have? Would you like to be able to do something you currently can't? Would you like to have a different situation? Better health? More money? More FUN?
A little about me.
If I look at the world I live in, I can easily generate a list of things that I think need changing. It's pretty easy to add to the list -- I just have to notice what's going on each time I get angry, frustrated, or appalled. One source of these feelings is the mail I get asking for charitable contributions. I have my reservations on the legitimacy of some of these organizations (and they are legion), but the needs they underscore are very real. However, even if I gave all my money to anyone of them, it would barely make a dent in the funding that would be required to "fix" the problem. So how might I be more effective?
I've learned how to navigate a number of problems throughout my life, and I've found that some folks are capable of and interested in taking what I've learned and using it to solve similar problems of their own. So I'm here to share some stuff that might help you along your way.
My six siblings and I were the products of several different marriages. We had enough to eat, but not enough to do many of the fun things enjoyed by other families, and we didn't know how to get along with each other very well. Our parents weren't very good examples to follow, and I began very early to notice that a lot of things weren't right, and voicing my observations just got me in a lot of trouble.
One type of trouble was being exposed to long lectures from my stepfather, the purpose of which was to flatten my resistance and force me to behave according to his ideas. What evolved from these "lectures" were extended "arguments" that sometimes lasted from 8:00 PM to 4:00 AM and in which I learned to understand the value of verbal definitions and logical thought. And I learned to win, at least verbally.
Where I Started
After high school, managed to put myself through college after a couple of unsuccessful tries, and eventually got a decent job. Having a reliable income enabled me to support a family and help the kids through college, but there wasn't enough time or money left to do a lot of fun stuff. I began looking for a way to earn more money that wouldn't use up all my time and energy (I wasn't totally successful).
Because we grew up on a small farm, I was used to repairing and building things. Farmers weren't usually rich, so they got good at finding ways to make do. I found I knew enough to repair and renovate apartments, so I invested in a small apartment building, This worked, but it took money up front and years of work (so freeing up my time wasn't very successful). The big upside was passive income the property produced after the upgrade was complete and I got most of my time back.
When I retired from my regular job, I continued upgrading and improving the apartment building and eventually sold it at a profit.
I started with almost nothing, and with a horrendously poor ability to get along with anyone. I did have supportive grandparents that helped me get part-time work while in high school, and in between attempts at college, but finally getting accepted in a job that was interesting and paid well enabled me to start building the physical and social part of my life. Each step of the way, I needed to lean how to adapt to something new, whether it meant figuring out how to study while working part-time jobs, how communicate with people in a productive way, or just how to keep my car running. I was always in a state of flux, a state of becoming something different, and that got me out of a pretty bad early childhood into a reasonably rewarding and productive life.
What I'm about here, is sharing the useful things I learned with anyone who doesn't know those things and who thinks they might be of use to them.